jerk. Part of being in a relationship with someone is hearing them out and helping them work through things that arent always pretty. So, to help you out, here are the four major signs that the guy youre with isnt as nice as he seems. But eventually, after being ignored more times then Id care to admit, I realized that someone who would rather let me feel bad than have a hard conversation is actually pretty selfish. If your guy doesnt put any effort into making you happy, it makes you feel like he doesnt care. Once again, it may not seem mean because hes not actively doing anything to you, but his passive behavior can be just as hurtful. If you do something that involves a lot of physical movement, you will not want to be in a suit or dress. I call these sheep the Not-So-Nice Nice Guysthe guys who want to be nice, who want to be good men, but dont want to do the actual work that goes into. I knew I had to do something when I had no energy for anything else in my life.
I'm just a girl who's done putting up with the BS and douchebaggery of bad boys. Dating requires time, effort, and money. Then the next weekend, after you get excited for another great Friday night together, hell tell you, You know thats guys night! Big equivalent basically helped me implode into an even bigger self-loathing mess over a couple years; constantly comparing myself to the other women he wouldn't stop chasing. I couldn't believe this slightly older, charming, and successful guy was giving me - an awkward young girl who hadn't quite figured out the right shade of foundation - the time of day. He doesnt put in the effort. But I was young, insecure, and still pretty fresh on the dating scene.